It is already hard to find a nice and fashionable cloth for a lady whose height is 152cm.
It is even harder to find a nice, fashionable, and decent cloth.
When you browse the online catalogue, you were admiring the dress which has a perfect front appearance, but when you zoom in, you realize that there's a 'cut-out' at the waist. (Is it really a fashion? Weird)
Or you find a nice sleeveless dress, but somehow the holes for your arms are so big that people can peep through your armpit.
When I didn't bother to even wear a dress, I just thought, "Forget it. I won't buy those dresses". However, since it's getting very hard to find a nice, fashionable, decent dress for short person, I've been investing in tubes, tank tops, cardigans to layer some dresses that are almost-perfect, but...not perfect. I need to change my attitude, instead of saying that "This dress is just not for me!"
In other areas, it seems that there is no such thing as 'perfect cut' either. Even though we have standard size for shoes, there is a wide variety of the shape of human foot, so that somehow some shoes may not be suitable for some shapes. Even though a pencil skirt looks nice on most people, our own body shape matters and we need to adjust or change our preference.
In terms of relationships, there's no such as thing as someone who is 100% compatible. Love will be 'just' a fairytale if we measure the journey in our relationship in terms of 'compatibility'. (Here, I don't talk about principles. We need to have similar principles, I believe that this one can't be compromised). Sometimes, what we need to do to make our relationship is happier is not to change the other person or change ourselves 180 degrees, but what we need are the tube tops, tank tops, or cardigans that can beautify things that are a little bit 'ugly' in us, be it a little sacrifice, a little smile, or just.. an additional text or call of 'Sorry' or 'Good night'.
It's tough, but it's worth it.
cos there's no perfect-cut.
It is even harder to find a nice, fashionable, and decent cloth.
When you browse the online catalogue, you were admiring the dress which has a perfect front appearance, but when you zoom in, you realize that there's a 'cut-out' at the waist. (Is it really a fashion? Weird)
Or you find a nice sleeveless dress, but somehow the holes for your arms are so big that people can peep through your armpit.
When I didn't bother to even wear a dress, I just thought, "Forget it. I won't buy those dresses". However, since it's getting very hard to find a nice, fashionable, decent dress for short person, I've been investing in tubes, tank tops, cardigans to layer some dresses that are almost-perfect, but...not perfect. I need to change my attitude, instead of saying that "This dress is just not for me!"
In other areas, it seems that there is no such thing as 'perfect cut' either. Even though we have standard size for shoes, there is a wide variety of the shape of human foot, so that somehow some shoes may not be suitable for some shapes. Even though a pencil skirt looks nice on most people, our own body shape matters and we need to adjust or change our preference.
In terms of relationships, there's no such as thing as someone who is 100% compatible. Love will be 'just' a fairytale if we measure the journey in our relationship in terms of 'compatibility'. (Here, I don't talk about principles. We need to have similar principles, I believe that this one can't be compromised). Sometimes, what we need to do to make our relationship is happier is not to change the other person or change ourselves 180 degrees, but what we need are the tube tops, tank tops, or cardigans that can beautify things that are a little bit 'ugly' in us, be it a little sacrifice, a little smile, or just.. an additional text or call of 'Sorry' or 'Good night'.
It's tough, but it's worth it.
cos there's no perfect-cut.
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